Do not be dogmatic or oppose in a sterile way, but listen and accept being sometimes fragile. You must think against ourself and accept not being able to do it completely. The point at which you are thrown into the world carries prejudices, values, and ideas by default that are different from others. In order not to be only the fruit of this birth, you must be interested with curiosity and skepticism in others. Thinking against yourself is necessary but intellectually violent, you thus avoid complacency and dogma to arrive at a thought that is as complete and complex as possible. A risk is to see in reality only what you want to see. Saying "I have my values" supposes that they are above us and transcend, but the value of your values is established only according to yourself, which does not make them absolute but decided. Accept being wrong, be humble.
Nathan DeversLife is a video game, a matrix you can't escape, so win within it: make progress toward your goals, understand how to get into optimal consciousness state, stop taking life so seriously and create your ideal future, reinvent your character, leverage it to pursue a life's work. The more attention you invest in your goals, the stronger their gravity becomes. Where there is too much stimulus for your brain, you can't metabolize the experience and get anxious, but when there is too few stimulus, you become bored. Like in a game, you enlighten a dark map step-by-step, skill after skill, level after level. Embrace and live at the edges, the highs and the lows, rather than staying in the middle where it is the most miserable. The higher skilled you are, the higher challenge you need to avoid boredom (without getting too much anxiety) and get in a flow state. Learn the rules, practice until bored, repeat at next level. Goals imply problems imply struggles.
Dan KoePeople are on the internet too much for deep reasons like a decreased of IRL social sense replaced by online communities and feeling of progress. The dangers of being chronically online are affected sleep cycle, reduced attention span, a weird vibe, and you have weird interests/hobbies. Normal people are chronically online, they work then waste their afternoon online. To start, write a schedule and avoid internet 1 day/week.
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