Desire is a scam because we have reduced freedom to desire and desire to the act of buying. We are only interested in those who can consume, not the poor. Excess desire kills desire, too much sex kills sex. Since women can no longer be approached because they are in conflict with men, the latter turns to their peers out of fear. Homosexuals are no longer transgressive or festive, they are a militia. Sexual misery particularly affects boys from the suburbs where girls are few and hidden, without restaurants nor suitable apartments to invite them. The pretty suburb girls will sell themselves to clubs where suburbs boys don't fit to leave that environment. Telling a certain hidden truth is expensive. There is no hatred in the explanation. To understand the other, you have to be interested in them.
Alain SoralFreedom came at the price of uncertainty and everything is now negotiable. The modern survival of a family depends solely on the quality of the connection in the couple because it is believed that the quality of our life depends on the quality of our relationships. There was less freedom and more community in the days of villages unlike modern cities devoid of the sense of belonging. The duty to reproduce has become a desire for pleasure, thus changing the meaning of sex and then marriage. Love and the success of marriage now interfere in sex. The couple must now respond to the need for security and adventure, stability and change. Can we want what we already have? Is love different from desire? Our partner attracts us when he is passionate in his element which creates curiosity in us. We seek a person who excels at what we want to have more of in us but let him do it. Monogamy has long meant one person for life, now it would mean one person at a time. We have gone from until death do us part to until love dies. We no longer divorce because we are not happy, but because we could be happier.
Esther PerelGreatness does not exist and no one knows what is really going on. The greats we respect had the same doubts and felt lost too. If someone tells you that you will never accomplish anything great in life, you have to tell them to go fuck themselves because who are they? Time passes and there is not enough time to listen to cynics. What is happening on Earth is not normal so act without expectations, do cool things for no reason. Criticism will be forgotten like our failures. There is room for everyone and the greats were not, they simply refused cynicism.
Alexander McKechnie