Say the opposite how what's expected, fake out jokes with a 1 second pause before the punchline, say something absurd that can still be plausible, create a ridiculous and specific mental image, tease people on something that's unlikely to be an insecurity. Create laugh, not shame, while being kind and caring. Have fun yourself without censoring yourself, even though it's not always funny, and store good ones as your go-to jokes. To be sarcastic without looking like a bully, mock yourself too sometimes.
Charlie HoupertSuccess can make you soft if you stop grinding to celebrate so cap that to return grinding asap. To help other get better, you need to get better yourself. Discover your flaws and build yourself a new you that doesn't have them. Stay hungry for more but stay humble as we're all at the same level. Long and ultra-long races take preparation. Motivation is not permanent, nothing is, so you need to train your mind to do things even without motivation. Be your best self when you're not motivated. Clear mind and discipline. Knowing about your real achievements are proof of your competence that help to build real confidence, a positive proof that you can. Sometimes a pain somewhere originates from elsewhere. Do an autopsy on yourself to see why your dying. The world is tough, it will find your demons and use them against you, so know yourself and be at ease with it. Face and fix yourself. Deprogram some patterns. With gained knowledge and fame, you have to open up to share. It's easy to be great today, but a bit lonely, because everyone sucks and is lazy nowadays, so just do the extra work.
David GogginsThe system in place works against you, the average nice 9-5 job is a thing of the past. Personal life has become more important than professional life and moving up the hierarchy is no longer attractive because it brings fewer advantages than before. Being a manager brings in less money and more stress than someone who mixes his tech expertise with sales that only depends on himself. The modern worker must have entrepreneurial ambitions. For those who simply want to move up, they are forced to change companies to get a promotion that they will get faster and with a better salary. Since big things like becoming a homeowner seem unattainable, why bother?
How Money WorksYou don't act charismatic, you are naturally. What if being shy and quiet is you faking it, and your true self is more affirmed? Break out, even if it feel forced, to reach your true ground. You don't need days to recharge. It starts now in the way you behave, ask, answer, live, etc. Ask the right people for feedback and listen. Don't escape and think too much. This is due to internal and external matters, past, present, and situational. When did you start playing small in your vibe and energy? It often originates from a long time ago, don't give the right answer but the real one. Saying "I don't know" immediately stops the process. Resistance is strong. You can let go of the past by being aware of what you want to let go and not getting suck into it or it'll manifest again. Your past you didn't know everything you know now. Also, we have no idea what's best for us, so chill.
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